Therapy and performance support for young people of color navigating trauma, cultural identity, and the weight of expectations

Telehealth in Colorado and PSYPACT Participating States

Services

A space to unpack what no one taught you how to carry—whether it’s pain, pressure, or performance.

Individual Therapy

For teens and young adults of color feeling stuck, numb, or overwhelmed. Therapy helps you slow down, make sense of what’s going on inside, and start healing—without pressure to explain everything or hold it all together.

Family Therapy

For families navigating substance use, emotional distance, or culture clashes. I help bridge the gap between generations, so teens feel heard, parents feel supported, and everyone can start healing in a way that honors each person’s experience.

Parent Support

For parents who want the best for their kid but feel lost on how to help. Together, we’ll rebuild connection, shift old patterns, and support your teen without shame, silence, or fear driving the process.

Mental Performance Training

For teens and young adults chasing big goals. We’ll use Brainspotting and evidence-based techniques to enhance mental performance, work through blocks, and access focus, flow, and confidence under pressure.

Areas of Specialty

Stuff they say you’re not supposed to talk about
— but we will

  • Substance use doesn’t happen in a vacuum. For many teens and young adults—especially those navigating trauma, family pressure, cultural stigma, or mental health challenges—it can become a way to cope with pain, numb out, or feel in control.

    If you come from a family or culture where addiction is seen as a moral failing, not a mental health issue, asking for help can feel almost impossible. Shame, secrecy, and fear of judgment can keep the cycle going—and make everyone feel even more alone.

    In therapy, we don’t just focus on the substance. We look at what’s underneath it—the pain, the patterns, the survival strategies—and work together to build healthier ways of coping. Whether you're struggling yourself or supporting someone who is, we'll explore tools that help you reduce harm, stay grounded, and take steps toward healing that actually sticks.

  • Trauma can shape the way you think, feel, and relate to others—even when you don’t realize it. For teens and young adults, it might show up as emotional overwhelm, disconnection, people-pleasing, shutting down, or self-sabotage. Sometimes, it doesn’t look like trauma at all—it just feels like something’s always “off.”

    For folks from marginalized communities, trauma is often layered—with systemic injustice, cultural silence, and intergenerational pain woven in. That kind of trauma doesn’t just live in the past—it lives in your body, your relationships, your sense of safety.

    In therapy, we work gently and intentionally to untangle that. Through body-based and emotionally focused approaches, we create space to process what’s happened, restore a sense of safety, and build resilience in a way that honors your culture, your story, and your pace.

  • When it feels like everything depends on you “making it,” messing up doesn’t feel like an option. But the pressure to always perform—on the field, in school, at home—can push you into survival mode fast.

    For many high-performing, high-achieving teens and young adults, especially if you're carrying your family’s hopes and trying to prove you're more than your mistakes, it can feel like you’re one slip-up away from losing everything. When your future, your identity, and your sense of worth are all tied to success, the pressure can become overwhelming.

    In therapy, we slow things down so you don’t have to carry that weight alone. You'll learn how to regulate your nervous system, recover from setbacks, and stay present in high-stakes moments—not by pushing harder, but by understanding what's underneath the pressure and building real tools to support your growth.

  • You might feel stuck, numb, or disconnected—or like your brain won’t slow down and you’re constantly overwhelmed. Maybe you shut down. Maybe you overthink everything. Maybe both. Either way, it’s exhausting.

    If you’ve ever been told you’re lazy, too sensitive, or too much, you might have learned to hide how bad things really feel. Depression and anxiety in young people of color often don’t look like what people expect. They might show up as anger, fighting, lashing out, doing drugs, partying too much, overworking, or shutting down completely. Sometimes it gets labeled as “disrespectful,” “lazy,” or “out of control”—but underneath, it’s pain, fear, or pressure no one taught you how to name. They can also show up as burnout, isolation, people-pleasing, perfectionism, or never feeling like you’re “enough.”

    In therapy, we slow things down and make space for the feelings you’ve had to hold in. We’ll work on understanding your patterns, building emotional tools, and reconnecting with the parts of you that have been shut out or pushed aside. This isn’t about 'fixing' you—it’s about helping you feel safe in your own skin again.

  • ADHD isn’t just about focus—it’s about having a brain that works differently in a world that wasn’t built for it. For young people of color, especially those in families that value discipline, order, or emotional control, ADHD can be misunderstood as laziness, defiance, or “not trying hard enough.”

    You might find yourself zoning out, forgetting things, saying stuff you didn’t mean to, or crashing after bursts of energy. Maybe you overwork to hide it. Maybe you’ve been told you’re “too much” your whole life—or started using substances to quiet the noise.

    In therapy, we explore how your brain works—without labeling you or trying to make you fit into a mold. We build tools for focus, time, and emotion regulation—but we also work on releasing the shame. ADHD support is about more than just executive functioning—it’s about seeing yourself clearly and finally feeling understood.

  • Growing up between cultures can feel like constantly switching versions of yourself—what’s expected at home doesn’t always match what’s expected in the world. For teens and young adults of color, especially those from immigrant families, this can lead to deep confusion, isolation, and pressure to be everything for everyone.

    You might struggle with feeling “not enough” in any space—or carry guilt for wanting something different than what your family imagined for you. On top of that, the impact of racism, xenophobia, homophobia, or gender-based discrimination can make it even harder to feel safe, seen, or worthy.

    In therapy, we create space to unpack all of it—cultural identity, family expectations, intergenerational conflict, and systemic stress. You’ll have room to process what’s been passed down to you, explore who you are, and build a more grounded, confident relationship with your story.

  • How we learn to connect—or protect ourselves—in relationships often starts early. If you grew up with emotional distance, chaos, or pressure to perform instead of express, it makes sense if you struggle to trust people, open up, or feel safe being close to others.

    Attachment wounds don’t always look like fear—they can show up as pushing people away, getting “too close too fast,” emotional shutdowns, or constantly fearing you’re ‘too much’ or ‘not enough.’ Sometimes, relationships feel overwhelming. Sometimes, they feel impossible.

    In therapy, we explore those patterns with care and curiosity—not blame. You’ll learn how your early experiences shaped the way you relate to others, and how to build safer, more connected relationships—starting with the one you have with yourself.

  • You know what you’re capable of. But sometimes your mind and body just don’t sync. Maybe it’s the yips. Maybe you freeze, overthink, blow up, or shut down right when it matters most. Maybe you keep replaying that one mistake—or you’re scared your shot at the future is slipping through your hands.

    Mental performance training helps you rebuild that connection—so your body can do what it knows how to do, even under pressure.

    I use Brainspotting, a powerful mind–body approach trusted by elite athletes and performers, to help you move through mental blocks, emotional overload, and the stress responses that derail performance. This isn’t just mindset work—it’s deep nervous system training that helps your skills lock in and stay with you when the stakes are high.

    Whether you’re fighting to stay on the team, hold onto a scholarship, or just keep your future intact, we’ll get you back in the zone—not just physically, but mentally and emotionally too.

  • Supporting a teen through substance use is hard—especially when no one talks about it and parents who have not gone through it just don’t understand. People might make you feel like you’re a bad parent, like you’re doing something wrong, when in reality, you’re doing everything you can—often in silence, often alone.

    Parents often carry guilt, shame, or fear of being judged, especially in families or cultures where mental health and addiction are taboo. It can feel like you’re failing, even when you’re trying your hardest to hold it all together.

    Parent coaching creates a space where you don’t have to have all the answers. Together, we’ll look at what’s underneath your teen’s struggles—like trauma, anxiety, peer pressure, or emotional overwhelm—and explore how you can support their healing without losing yourself in the process.

    You’ll learn tools to reduce conflict, rebuild trust, and communicate in ways that actually land. We’ll also talk about how to care for you—because your stress, grief, trauma, and fear deserve attention too. You don’t have to do this alone, and you don’t have to do it perfectly to make a difference. You just have to stay in the room—and we’ll figure it out together.

My Approach

Rooted in relationship. Guided by science.
Grounded in culture. Geared toward growth.

I don’t do one-size-fits-all therapy. I meet you where you’re at, honor the culture and context you bring into the room, and walk with you as you explore what healing—and thriving—can actually look like for you.

You are the expert of your own life—you are the captain of the ship; I'm just helping you sail it and get where you want to go. Whether you're working through trauma or striving toward your next level, we’ll move at your pace, with intention and clarity.

I’ll help you slow down, understand your emotions, and work with your nervous system—not against it. We’ll explore the patterns that keep showing up (even the ones that don’t make sense), clear internal blocks, and practice new ways of showing up in your body, your performance, and your relationships.

My therapeutic approach blends culturally responsive, evidence-based therapy with performance-informed mind–body work. Here's what that looks like:

  • When you grow up in a family where emotions weren’t talked about, where maintaining harmony meant staying silent, and success was the only option—you learn to bury a lot.

    Psychodynamic Psychotherapy helps us understand how those unspoken rules still show up in your life now—through guilt, burnout, people-pleasing, or a constant fear of disappointing others. By exploring your past relationships and cultural expectations you grew up with, we can start to untangle what’s yours from what you’ve inherited—and begin to write a new story on your own terms.

  • When you’ve learned to hide your feelings, numb out, or strive for perfection to earn love or approval, it makes sense that you feel disconnected. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps you notice what’s really going on inside—without judging yourself for it—and take action based on your values, not just your fears.

    Whether you’re using substances to cope, stuck in cycles of guilt, or always chasing impossible standards, we’ll work on building the kind of inner clarity and emotional courage that lets you show up differently—for yourself, not just for others. It’s not about “thinking positive”—it’s about learning to move through the mess with intention and self-trust.

  • When your emotions have been dismissed, misunderstood, or used against you, it’s easy to shut down or lash out—and hard to feel safe being vulnerable.

    Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)helps us get to the root of those reactions by exploring your emotional needs, attachment wounds, and relational patterns. Whether it’s tension with your parents, disconnect in your romantic relationship, or shame around your own feelings, we’ll work on creating safety, building trust, and healing through rebuilding connection.

  • Sometimes, you don’t have the words—but your body remembers. You feel off, shut down, or like you’re watching life happen from outside yourself. Brainspotting helps with that by helping you access and process trauma, stuck emotions, and overwhelm by working with the brain and nervous system directly—not just through talking.

    But it’s not just for healing the past. Brainspotting can also help high performers clear mental blocks, regulate under pressure, and access flow states—so you can show up with more focus, calm, and confidence. Whether you’re navigating trauma or chasing your next level, we move at your pace, gently and intentionally.

  • Multicultural Therapy and Liberation Psychology help us look at your mental health through a wider lens—one that includes culture, family history, racism, colonization, and systemic oppression.

    If you’ve ever been told to just “be grateful,” to stay silent, or to push through pain without naming it—this approach creates space to question those messages. Instead of asking what’s wrong with you, we ask what happened to you—and what did the world expect you to carry?

    Together, we’ll explore how systems have shaped your story and work toward healing that centers your truth, your values, and your liberation—the freedom to live, feel, and choose in a way that’s true to you, not just who you were told to be.

  • Buddhist Philosophy teaches us that we don’t have to believe everything we think—especially the stuff that makes us feel small, stuck, or not good enough.

    Through mindfulness, compassion, and learning to gently let go of old stories and harsh inner rules, this approach helps you relate to yourself with more kindness and less pressure. You don’t have to be perfect to be at peace.

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